Forced marriage aka Vat n sit

Sometimes reaching out and taking someone's hand is the beginning of a journey. At times, it is allowing another to take yours
-Vera Nazarian

The times that we live in are very interesting. A time that is ruled by rights and resposibilites set by the country and not by the parents. A person can now do whatever they want and not feel guity. It is good that there is freedom but they are talking it too far. What happend to principles that are set at home? Are we now not going to follow rule from home but live wild and free? 

Go ahead and stay with your signifacant other if you feel you are ready. I am not judging but someone needs to know where are you are. If you die how will they know? Do you want to do a Jama and Ayanda stunt now?  If you are playing a husband and wife then be ready for all the consequences. No one is against it but just know what you are in for. Not everyone has your best interests at ❤.

Next thing you will be crying simply because your significant other doesnt show any interest on taking your relationship to the next level, that is marriage. For your other you are already living like you are married and doesnt find it necessary to marry you. 

In your early twenties you think you dont wana be married and you are all independent but as time goes by you start to feel because all your friends are starting to get married,talking family and you are just there still in denial. Your twenties are the best years. For instance it is the time you actually find yourself,what you want in life,soul searching,career.  So my question is, will you be happy to just stay with your partner without being married and with no one knowing about that?

What happend to waiting till after "I do"?