The other women aka makhwapheni

Never be proud of being another women's waking nightmare

Have you ever wonder if you are the only one in his life? That he only telling you nothing but the truth? Wether you admit it or not we all thought of it at some point in our lives.

Every women is insecure. You cant really know your position in his life. But lets leave that for another day. Today's question is the other women. She knows she is the other women but why wont she let him go? Take a seat, relax then ask yourself if you are happy with being the other woman. Reality is he will most unluckly  never leave his wife for you. He will make all the promises in the world but will he keep them?

Everyone has needs and wants,what they cant live without and what they want to have but can still live without.

You are a want in his life. He is being greedy and you are just there to help with this urge he has. He will take you out to all the nice  places you want to go,sleep at expensive hotels but at the end of the day his wife and kids will come first.

Stop hurting yourself by living in the shadow when you deserve so much move in life. Being the other women is not something to be proud of. He is using you but you are in denial and that will leave a big hole in your heart. For now you will think you will be fine but wakeup.

You should never be happy that you are stealing another woman's food. Because you are happy with being in the second place,he can leave his wife,get another woman and you will remain in the second place. You being the spare wheel shows you don't love yourself much but for him you are just the best he ever had. You dont question what he does because you are afraid to lose him. No women should ever be happy that they are wrecking someone's home.

Pause for a minute and ask yourself is it really worth it and what will you do if you were the wife and he had another woman. Respect yourself and leave him. He doesnt deserve you. He is not wrong until he gets caught. Remember, he will always choose his wife over you. He has build his life with his wife and cant risk it by leaving his wife for you.

What will you offer him? You are just the one he goes to when he is having marital problems with,when he is bored,who is always availabe for him to quickly blow off some steam. Face it and set yourself free.