Why do you drag me to the ground : Toxic friends

 "Stop inviting people who don't celebrate you to your party! It's YOUR life - you have the right to be exclusive."

 “ If there is a particular person in your life that is repeatedly choosing not to honor you and is causing you more sadness or pain than they are joy - it might be time to release that friendship back to God and trust that it is not where you belong."

Mandy Hale

The thought of losing someone you love is unbearable but what if they are the cause of the sadness ? It can happen to anyone anywhere.

You no they are no good but you want them around you. They are destroying not building you. You deserve so much more

 Here are some of the  traits of a toxic Friend

Your friend demands your trust. You earn anyone's Trust is earned based on one's ability to be trustworthy, and a friend who demands your trust is not trustworthy.

You don't leave feeling encouraged and inspired.
You often feel like you are treated like a child when you're around them? Your friendships should encourage and build you. The type of behavior that leaves you with negative and bittersweet feelings.

Your friend often mocks others. Mocking is a clear sign of toxicity. A person who mocks is simply not a healthy person to be around.

Your friend likes to gossip.  Those who gossip to you will eventually gossip about you. This is a common thing amongs females and this kind of friendship will eventually self-destruct. If your friend betrays confidential conversations or shares with you information that you know was not meant to be public, you can be 100 percent certain that your friend is a toxic friend.

Your friend is jealous and controlling. This behaviour will drive them to be jealous and controlling of the time you spend with others. As much as you might love them you still need your alone time and mingle with others

We all have those people whom we love but in all honesty they are just not right for you. Nothing is pain like having a friend with one of the traits I mentioned above.

Know when to let go as some of these so called friend are the cause of you constant self doubt. A toxic friend will make you doubt your capabilities just to make themselves. This people are your bullies. Until you get rid of them you wont see where you are going with your life.

If you are the toxic friend then it is high time you change. You change for yourself not anyone.
Make the right choice. It is not the end of the world.

Goodnight