Baby mamma and baby daddy drama

Have ever been in a baby mamma/daddy drama situation? Nobody wants that

" I'm going to keep it real gully with you; the first two months, I wanted to give him back. I expected someone to come and save me because after you have the baby, nobody cares about you anymore. Nobody cares if you sleep, nobody cares if you eat. It's just you and this all-consuming thingy!
Jill Scott"

We all know about them. I dont know why would you decide to have a baby with someone then when you cant handle each other you decide nooo he has to go but you each make each other's lives a living hell.

To the baby mamma

You try to control each others lives. Your baby mamma will call you around 2AM to tell you that the baby misses you,what can you do at the time of the night? Are you suppose to get in your car go see that child. People are crazy.

You have to remember that he might have a new woman in his life. Since you felt he is not right you cant ruin changes of him with someone else. The new woman will just see you as a desperate woman to get a man. Respect yourself.

It is hard but it does not mean you have to run after him always. If he supports his child/children and makes time who are you to judge. Not all baby daddies ran away. If he is around dont make him runaway cause eventually he will and your child will suffer.

You have decided to part ways and you have to respect the desicion. If you cant respect yourself then who will? You think calling him randomly because you guys share a baby is ok? Well you need to learn to have boundries.

You are no longer dating. Remember that you can be the poor women who has to put up with your random calls one day. He will think you want him back but it turns out you dont. Unless it is an emergency dont call that guy. Karma is alive and kicking. Let it sort him out,it will trust me. 

To the baby daddy

You are no longer in charge. Whoever she dates is none of your business unless if you feel your child is not safe around them. You can only call if it regards the kids. You also need to pay your dues. Love and support that child of yours.

 Dont let them suffer because of your differences. At the end of the day she is the mother of your child and you need to raise the child together.

 You randomly going to her house and thinking she cant have a new man in their lives is crazy. Your selfish behaviour will live you miserable and lonley. You will look jelouse of the new man in their lives.

Why are you the only one who can get  happiness and she left alone to be lonley. Move on but remember that child of yours. Dont fight with her cause she can take the baby away from you.

The both of you were once inlove and had a child together. Because the love is gone it does not mean the child should be left between. You cant half of the baby,you need to share.

Dont ever make your kids hate you ex's new man/woman in their life. Remember it can be you.