Why say "I do" when you cant keep a promise? Resist the temptation.

"The truly scary thing about undiscovered lies is that they have a greater capacity to diminish us than exposed ones. They erode our strength, our self-esteem, our very foundation.
—Cheryl Hughes"

It was a perfect day. The weather was right,everything going according to plan. Nobody was late. She wouldnt stop crying because she was just happy. She was about to start a new chapter in her with the so she believe "love of her life".

He was not about to ask if he is dreaming as this is what he wanted to do. Everybody was there and there was no chaos whatsoever. They said their "I do's" infront of their family friends. A new beginning

All Im asking is what happend?

He is there at all times. He supports you,listens to you. You feel like the happiest woman alive. No one can step in your way. Whatever you want you get.

She gives you what you want. You said you want children,she gave you them, you wanted to relocate,she never complained. You wanted her to spend more time at home she didn't complain. After all she said "I do" to you. She stays loyal to you.

As time goes by she starts to get bored from the everyday routine. The kids,wifely duties,husband busy making money for them to survive until he is busy that they cant do it everyday. She gets lonley. Starts looking for someone to just listen to her. She just wants that. After all the husband is busy trying to maintain their lifestyle until the unexpected happen.

Out of the blue someone sees something is wrong. He asks what is wrong and just like that she talks about what she experiencing, how she just wants attention. She just wanted anyone to listen to her. This man just seem to be there at the right time. She doesnt have to feel alone anymore. She starts getting more dependent on this man more than she realises.

 Before she can come back to her senses,right there there is the man taking the role of the husband. An affair develops all because she never thought the husband would get it. She catches feelings for this man so what about the she said I do to? .
He is busy at work doing all he can for his family. A real man is the breadwinner of his family. He just wants to see his family happy.

He can never be a failure. He works more. He is at home less. He gets stressed but doesnt wana bother his wife. Someone offers their ears to listen. Just like that. He notices something about this person. He can talk to them about whatever he wants and feel better. She listens to him,does whatever he wants. One thing leads to another and an affair starts. His wife starts to matter less. He cant wait to be around this person even when at home.

All of this started when you thought you dont want to bother your partner with what was on your mind. You got that attention you have been longing for and thought that is a good distraction.

It is a short term thing you thought to yourself. What about the one said "for better or worse" to infront of your family? Let us remember to keep our promises and respect that. The one you cheats wont understand for long. Imagine the pain you bringing to your loved ones. If they find out who knows what they will do to you. You might you need that but is it worth it? Love your partner enough to talk about everything and fix it.

Even if you are not married but in a relationship remember to talk to them. Cheating for whatever reason is not worth it. It is said that if you go for the second person because if the first one was right you would have never went to the second one.

Do not cheat. If you feel they are no what you want just leave. No one deserves pain from the cheating partner that is busy with someone else instead of comming to them.