Peace: How can one ever find it?

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We can never obtain peace in the outer world until we make peace with ourselves.
Dalai Lama

Do you feel like you just trying whatever you can but nothing ever seem to work your way?

We all humans and go through that. You try to do everything right but there is always something standing in your way. We tend to be accused of things that we didn't do mainly because of the society and how much of a mess it is.

Not being able to find peace can change your perspective on everything that is happing around you. The more you try to find peace the more something just seem to stand it your way. What one can do is tell themselves that "I will not let this situation stop me from finding peace no matter what". The more you let people have a say in your life,the more likely you will unlikely find it.

It is not everyone that want you to be happy. Yes they will smile but it is not all of them that want you to be at peace.
You might love being around people because it feels good to belong to someone or something but question is "are you finding from where you are standing or not?".

Sense of belonging brings some sort of security and you might convince yourself you are happy but in reality you are not. Until you find peace you will never live your life to the fullest. Some things are not worth it. You came alone in this world so why should you feel the need to please everyone else? What about you and what you believe in?

The more effort you put in yourself the more likely that you will find peace. Be selfish,it is your life after all. Trying to please everyone is the reason is why you are hopeless and lonley. Think about it,you working hard,driving a nice car, live in a nice surbub but no one is happy for you, they are not suppose to be because it is not their lives. Like I have said earlier not everybody will be happy for you. The sooner you accept that and move on the faster you will find peace.

They wont be there to celebrate your archievements but will likely be there to judge you from a simple things such as a rumour. Be selfish when it comes to your wellbeing but also don't hurt or use others while doing it. Honesty is the best policy so be honest with yourself. We all deserve peace so don't ever let anyone take that away from you. Love yourself and find that peace.

 After finding it you will start having a positive perspective on your life. Even if you are poor or not where you wanted to be in life it doesn't mean you should just be angry. Accept where you are at that moment and start working on where you want to be. Doing what makes you happy will help you find inner peace that one longs for.

It is not always easy to accept the current you are in if it was not what you wanted. You can always tell yourself that is it not your final destination as you will not rest until you reach it. Everyday strive to get where you want to be. By doing so you will find peace and a good place to belong.

Letting what everyone says about you affect your life will lead you to the road of misery. It is not hard to see that some of the things that happen for a reason but let it be a teachable one to do better next time and learn from the past.

Your real supporters will never make you feel hopeless. Know your support structure. They will always have your back no matter what. They wont love you conditionally. Be grateful if you have such in your life.