Do you depend on your looks for money?

Do you depend on your looks for money?

This is one topic we will forever debate about. You see an attractive brother or sister and just like that you just re-evaluate your life. You see this women, you know the woman who looks just too on point? The makeup, style and the appearance? Please stop worrying about those women already. You don’t know her or where she comes from or what she even does for a living. For the brothers, yes he might have a car but do you think he has it all together but again why do you worry about him? As humans we need to know what we want in life and go get it.

They say money is root of all evils but how far are you willing to go for it? Women just seem to be the masters of this one. What happened to dating for   love and everything else will follow? The day you stand up for yourself financially is the day you will only look for love and be in a happy place. The motto nowadays is “go big or go home”.  Whether we admit it or not money is starting to play a huge role in our lives. People are starting to have double standards just to relate to the society. Who said you should hang out at clubs to find a guy who has money whereas you could be at home in bed or catching up on your favourite series?

The more you force yourself to do things that you mostly won’t do it is then you start feeling miserable. Yes you are beautiful, he gets you whatever you want but at what cost exactly. He might be giving you the money but can you handle the pressure of living that sort of lifestyle? We all want fancy stuff but why as women are we starting to depend on our looks to get far in life. I had an argument with a very good about this and all she said was “love doesn’t pay the bills. It is better to cry in a Mercedes than under a tree”. At that time I found very funny but it is sad really. Women rather are hurt in a relationship over and over again by the same guy than to actually get themselves those luxuries. Where is self-love in all of this?

We get angry when men call us gold-diggers but when in all honesty we did it to ourselves. We as women chose to let men walk all over us instead of standing up for ourselves making things happen. Men are not the only people who can get you whatever you want all the time. You were born with brain so please start using it.

Why is it all of a sudden we have to have the perfect body and perfect skin to relate to the society?  Your looks can only take you to a certain level but that is it. Do you want to be the dumb beautiful and young wife of some old man? The sad reality of that is when you grow older you start to be irrelevant. That anti-aging cream can only work up until a certain point so please get up and get things yourself. Don’t be the girl with no ambition and jumping from one man to another because money is what keeps you going. You will get sick, lonely and feel alone. A big unwelcoming house won’t let you have a good night sleep. Yes he might be buying that weave that requires someone to get a micro loan for but if you can only offer him your looks he will get tired and move to a young version of you. Do your yourself a favour, maintain that beautiful you with your own money that you work for everyday and enjoy the fruits of your hard work. Leave those guys with money. They are ruthless and not scared to lose you in the process. They can leave you at any time and what will you have to show? As a person you should love yourself and be independent not dependent.

We all have brains so start making yours useful.  Looks can only get you to a certain point and your brain takes you further.o