Body shaming amongst women: super skinny to trend or thick to be relevant?
who said you look more beautiful than others? Your appearance can't define who you are. We should all feel beautiful no matter the shape or size.
Nowadays we are treated differently because of our appearances which needs to stop. We are all meant to stand out. No one should be feeling any less about themselves than they already are.
There is alot going on around us that we should be focusing on instead of looking down on one another. We are one gender that should be supporting each other because of the constant attacks.
Body shaming is one of the reasons why some women starve themselves just to have a sense of belonging. If God wanted us to look the same I'm sure we would all be but that was never his plan. The least we could do is stop treating each other differently. She eats alot so why is that your place to intervene? She was born with small breasts so who said you should belittle her? This are some one of the things that make women want to be constantly changing their appearances instead of embracing them. One should love themselves no matter how they appear.
Letting the society have a say in your life can drive you insane in a sense that you start doubting yourself and the desicions you take. What we need to make peace with is that the society will always be there to say something. As a person you just learn to not listen to them all the time.
Instead of body shaming we should be supporting each other. Women are most likely to body shame each other women instead of standing up. Where are our feminists when we need them? We are all beautiful in our different shapes and sizes.
Embrace that thick body of yours. It might be a nightmare for you but some one else's dream body. Love yourself no matter what. If you want to change your appearance change it because you want to not because of what somebody else said to you. If we all had to change ourselves every time someone said something to us then we would not recognise ourselves.
Some women are becoming anorexic because of the constant bashing from the society which is something we should not be proud of. We can't lose people over such issues when we should be loving and supporting each other.
We are all built differently. Embrace what you have instead of hiding it. Love yourself and every one else will learn to love you too. Confidence is what you should always carry with you.
Always have positive self talk.
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Yo Tru hey. N sane thing is happening with us guys. The ones going to the gym thinks they are all that. Coz in most cases its thwm who belittle those who don't gym. N those who don't gym feel less recognized wen they r around those who are buffed. But it al goes down to self confidence. Im nt buffed. N im nt intimidated by anyone's body. Al I know is I need to keep healthy n look good. Dats one of our selfself confidence as guys
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