No to competing with peers? Know yourself

We were born to be different but why are you competing with your peers?

We are not in the same level in life and we will never be. Today everyone wants to compete with their peers all the time. It is a dangerous thing to do as we are not equal.

Competition is a good thing but be careful on who and what you compete with. We can't all be in the same level even if we wanted to. How will we find balance then? We as people need to find comfort in our selves and our abilities. No one should feel threatened by another whereas they were never in the same level to begin with. Loving yourself and accepting your situation is best. No one can take away what you possess.

As people we should be building each other up not destroying. The negativity needs to stop and support begin. Meet regularly to discuss big plans not other people. If you and your circle discuss people more than anything else then you are with the wrong circle.

You become the 5 average people you spend your time with. Be careful on who you talk to. You might not see it at some time but they have a direct influence in what you do.

Build each other to be better as peers. Everyone is running a different race but be the support that they need to by. Learn to say no some things you find uncomfortable for you to do. Sense of belong is costing people to an extended that they don't even know their selves anymore. Compete where you can not force yourself in people's lives.

Positive energy is one the attitudes that we need to get by. Do not do something that you will not know how to get back from. Your peers are not equally levelled. Don't run after a lifestyle that you can't maintain. Don't go after a certain circle because they represent a life you wish to live but don't make an effort towards getting there.

Running after a lifestyle than you cant maintain is what will make it more difficult to survive. We were never meant to be the same to start with so why do you want to be the same as others? Love yourself,know your strength and weaknesses.

Everyone has limits so know yours. Be realistic. Set goals you want to reach not run after a lifestyle that you can't even survive a day of. We know sometimes don't work the way we want to but that is not the end. Your real peers will love you no matter what. No money can even come between the friendship. Life is challenging already so don't make it worse by competing with peers.

Be grateful for what you have