Society standards and priorities: It is your life not theirs

Why is it that you can't live the way you want to freely anymore? Standards have become just everything to get you from A to B lately.

The society believes that because you work a certain type of job you should be behaving a certain way. Before we all get confused whose life is it to live? We as people need to learn not to let the society have full control over our lives. We need to stand up for ourselves and live whoever we want to live. The society is there to guide you every now and then with whatever you do but not everything.

Letting society have a say in your life will leave you miserable most of the time. Yes you have a good paying job but why do you have to live beyond your means just make other people happy? Priorities, learn to prioritize as a person. We can never really know as the society what your priorities are.

Influence and critism is good if it comes from  a good and positive space. We need to learn to prioritize our needs and not the ones the society feel we need. This thing of suffering from society standards needs to stop. They don't know what you fully want and what you don't so why should you try to please them or do they please you?

It is not always about the society standards but about yourself. Do they pay your bills? Give you money when you are broke? If answers are no so why let them have a control over you? Live your life however way you want to live and go on. By focusing on what are your priorities will help you archieve more in life. Stop trying to please everyone else forgetting to how you want to live.

We live in a democratic society so do not be afraid to live freely. No one can take away your happiness unless you let them take it. Fight for what you want and everything will fall into place. Adulting is hard already so why make it hard by trying to follow all the rules they provided. It is ok to get opinions every now and then not everytime.

Know what are your priorities and focus on them. Everyone has something that they need to do everytime whether they want to or not, that is priorities. You have to pay that house bond, that car instalment, buy groceries and many more. Life is already hard for you so why let the society have control over you. Too many times you were down and they were there just to judge but not help you. Know who to value in your life and who not to value in it. Your employer has to say something regarding your work and performance not your personal life. Unless it needs a professional to help you then don't do it. Who will live in regret for the rest of their time? It will definitely be you and not the society. The society has opinions about everyone but it does not mean you should live life according to them.

Life is just to precious to be depressed over what other people are saying about you. People are bitter and angry about their own problems and will bully just about anyone else to feel better about themselves. Society standards will always be there so never try to live beyond your means just to be relevant to them.