My fellow ladies: why can't we propose?

Times have changed so why can't that change also? So you have been with boo for some time and you both are happy with each other, why not propose?

We have this tendency of thinking all men should do these romantic stuff and will just sit there patiently judging. Wake up one morning and spoil the poor soul. Make him feel appreciated. It shouldn't always be about you. There are two people in the relationship and should both contribute.

Love comes in mysterious ways. Affection is something that everyone longs for. We may not always be perfect but you are definitely perfect for our partners.

You see that everything is going good and would settle with the munchkin but feel he doesn't see that as yet, you can propose to him. Times have changed so be flexible also. Do what he likes. Make it about him most of the time also. Be a fun,fearless woman. Go on your knee and propose. It might be funny but your partner will definitely appreciate it.

Don't worry about what people will say. Your partner makes you happy not them. If you are going to wait for him to propose you will wait till the infinity and beyond. Not all man think fast in that. He might think you just happy with how things are between you two.

Leave your fear in the toilet and propose to your man. If you don't someone will. Treat them like they are the only thing that exist in your world. Life is not always perfect but you can fight to make it. You are crazy at times but they still chose to stay with you so why not?

He is your one in a million, your bad habit but in a good way so why not make him special? Call me crazy but I would propose if I feel he is the one. Don't let anything stand in the way of your happiness. We have all been living but not living life to the fullest.

This tradition of only men proposing needs to stop. Both genders should. I know we are Africans with different traditions but why not bend the rules a little. What not live in the moment?

Proposing doesn't mean get married immediately after but fix your things. Your love for each other should definitely make it worth your while. Don't always play the hard head girl. If he loves you he will say yes and if he doesn't he will say no. Again how will you know if he wants to stay with you if you don't ask him?