Do you date people for what they can offer or for them?

Why can't you make your own money to spend? You want the finer things in life that you can't personally afford. How would you feel if someone was doing the same thing to your friend or family member? 

It's high time that we stop exploiting each other as people. Because your partner has money does not automatically mean you should have an allowance from him/her. Don't call the poor soul broke because you can't always get what you want.

Wake up and hustle like everyone else. You don't know how hard they worked to get where they are. You have never even walked a mile in their shoes but you want every little cent they make. Would you feel happy if your partner was to start demanding money from you knowing very well you don't even have enough for yourself? Do what you want others to do to you. Respect people's hustle.

What could be possibly stopping you from making money? Are you disabled? Everyone is capable of making their own money. Get support and right advise. Stop being a budden to other people. The sooner you wakeup the better. Your gold digging ways can only get you to a certain point in life. Don't you want a FAT bank account balance you honestly worked hard for? Wake up.

Brag about your hustle not exploiting your partner. The day the Well dries up it will be too hard for you to dig dipper because you never thought it will dry out. We are capable of making honest money.

You are getting old, your looks won't always do justice for you. Realise that while it is still early. Be with someone because you love them, not because you love what they have or what they could possibly bring to your life. Not everything is as it seems.

Your partner might be getting you all your heart desires but at an expense you can't bare. They might say it is better to cry at Paris than somewhere around Kasi but are you prepared to live like that? Don't live a lie. Your choices don't vanish when they stop working for you. They will forever remain there. Don't make bad choices on top of bad choices.

We are all here on earth for a reason and I'm sure it is not exploiting each other. Respect yourself and what your partner can offer you. If you feel you can't settle for that then move to the next one. Hustle like everyone else to be content with your life.