Why should the way your number is saved matter?

We should stop making a big deal out of small things.

When your parents met did they have smart phones at the time to save their significant other's numbers? What was important for them at the time they met? We need to start worrying about far more important things than that.

It doesn't matter how the number is saved but how you are treated. You find people angry over the fact that they are saved by their real names, what did you expect? Was "baby,love,babe" gonna make any difference to how your relationship is going?

There are far more important things to worry of at most times. Do you love each other or just a simple case of we don't know what we are doing here? Are you into showing off that you even forget to consider their feelings? Those little things you are doing are slowly killing your relationships. We take simple things for granted because we want to paint life in a certain way. You have an image in your head that you want to maintain but not looking at the cost.

In a relationship you are supposed to love one another not worry about petty things. What difference will it make if your contact is saved as "love of my life" ? Do you feel like you are just that. We need to grow up. Love your partner or leave them if you can't handle anything. It is not the end of the world.

Going through your partner's phone also won't bring any justice to you. You are violating their privacy all because you are just curious. We need to start respecting ourselves more than anything. Nurture each other. Trying to impress us won't get you anywhere. Love one another instead. Stop making your smart phones a reason to break up.

What should matter is how you are treating each other. You should try to impress us at the expense of losing your loved one. Do you even know what your partner loves it is just always about you? Do what makes both of you happy not what will make the rest of us happy. You will lose your partner over petty things and we won't be there to pick up the pieces of your broken heart. Do something because you want to. You don't need validation from us.

Treat each other with respect no matter what. He/she might have saved you by your real name but treating you like a queen or king but other save you with pet names and treat you like trash. What matters is how you are treated. Sometimes going through your partner's phone will get you more than what you bargained for. Always remember that.