Friend zoning? Why doesnt the circle ever end?

I'm always there for him/her. Why won't he or she look at me? Why can't he or she appreciate our friendship and see there is more to it? When do we draw the line? I can't keep holding in my feelings anymore. Gwababa is a very serious issue.

You know that one friend who is just always there for you more than everyone else in your life? That person might be there for a reason. We don't always see things the way they are but will do sooner or later. Some friendships are working beyond their capacity but no one seem to mind. We all enjoy being used by our fellow friends every now and then but some are just too willing.

Have you ever been in a situation that no one ever wanted to help you help you except that one friend? You don't have to admit it out now but there are friends who are just doing boyfriend/girlfriend duties on a friend tender and you need to see that. They might not always be brave and say it out loud but some like you. They make time for you no matter what. Realize what they doing and appreciate it. Not everyone is like that.

If you don't feel the same way then you need to let them know soon. Action speaks louder than words. We tend to sideline our fellow friends even when they can offer more. Sometimes they just have let go and watch everything fall into place. What if they are the big break you have been waiting for?

Not saying anything won't help at all. Maybe you know your friend has gwababa but really likes this other person, why can't you just be a good friend and help them get a partner.

We need to stop using our friends because of what they might feel for us only to leave them hanging alone. No one has the right to hurt other people's feelings. No one should die inside when we are there to help them.

I'm not saying one of your friends might have a thing for you but simply making you aware of some people's gestures. There are things that your partner won't do for you but that one friend would.

Never be afraid to ask people for their intentions in your life. We may not always be happy to hear them but atleast you know where you stand. Who knows, maybe you might finally graduate from the friendzone and make your way into a relationship.

Some friendships can offer more. Stop closing the door for other kids