Adulting: who came up with this thing?

Don't you ever wonder why do some things happen in a certain way? I miss only worrying about homework. Everything was ok until there was savings, jobs and debit orders. Can't I just enjoy my money while I still can ?

Life was fun back in teen years. We never had to worry about what to eat and how to make money. Does this adulting thing even come with a manual?

So much to think and worry about. Are you happy with where you are currently in your life? Do you have more than one income stream? Can you afford to not show up at work and get away with it? Are you living in your dream house? Do you have good investments?  How is your credit score by the way? Do you have life insurance policy? Birth certificate life is so much simpler.

Someone always has a funny or weird idea on how you supposed to live your life. They said we should go to school then work. We did but we are still not enjoying life at all. How much is enough money for one to simply retire early with?

However made adulting look easy really killed the rest of us. I can't look flawless all the time and still have energy to go to school and work. There is always something we have to do. No one is gona take care of you. You have to make a name for yourself.

I wana sleep most of the time or work from home. Going outside is just stressful. You not always in the mood for people. Just because you are in your adult years you are expected to act a certain way. Sometimes we just want to be childish in peace. I don't wana dress up or wear matching clothes all the time but if I don't do those I'm going to be misdiagnosed by the society.

We want to travel all the time but we don't always have enough money on time. Who has money on their savings account and how do they manage the temptations not to spend it? I tried saving but there are just so many things I want. I need money discipline😂😂😂😂😂

As if adulting was not enough, people just find it convenient to judge you as if they are doing better in life. When is the right age to have your own place by the way?

When you start to enjoy yourself you are asked about a partner, babies, goals etc. If a partner already exists you worry about having them in the long run or if it is just a moments thing. Relationships are something else.

In the end no one can really master this adulting thing. The only thing you can do is stay away from what you find toxic, unhealthy, unpleasant. Do what makes you happy. Party, cry louder, sleep in when you want to. Die a happy soul not a miserable one. Be selfish while you still can.