Why do we like convincing ourselves that we are happy?

You are not happy with your life so why lie about it? Leave if it no longer works for you. Allow yourself to feel sad. Until you feel feel sad you won't be free.

Have you ever seen how someone who didn't mourn usually behaves? They think appearing strong is a form of mourning but that is not the case. Have you seen someone who lost their only form of income act? How do you usually act after a breakup? Those are the many examples of how we usually try to behave.

You should feel like shit. Cry every chance you get if you have to. Sleep a lot if that is what makes you feel better. That is not a sign of weakness but it means you are slowly healing. Until you do so you won't be happy. Trying to musk everything will slowly kill you inside. Not everyone cares if you die or live. Be one of the people who cares that you live.

If you don't acknowledge the sadness, you will wake up every morning only to be irritated by everything around you. We have to learn to be accepting of every situation in our lives. Everything happens for a reason. There are stages we go through in life that are just too difficult but dont give up at all. The time is now. It will be alright.

Giving up should never be an option. You can tell yourself every morning when you wakeup that you are going to be happy but if you don't mean it then it won't happen. No one can forcefully make you feel a certain way but yourself. Always remember that.

If you can help others to get on their feet and be happy again, you have the aura to help yourself also. Don't live life according to what you think the society might want you to but how you feel. If you are not happy with something then acknowledge it, don't try to hide it. You must feel it at all times.

There are events that take place in our lives and make us think that we are not destined for happiness but that is not the case. Sleep more if you have to. Stay away from toxic people in your life. Be unorthodox if you have but try don't just feel sad. That is not how we were meant to live.

I'm not saying everyone is unhappy but those who are will get this. The sadness should end now. The glow should come back. Be ready for what will come after. It does not remain dark forever at all. Take the risk if it makes you happy.