We cry "single" but don't want to commit

"We loved the idea of us but we were not ready to commit to one another"~~

Why are we confusing ourselves so much? We have this believe that we deserve to be loved but we don't love ourselves. We blame the society for how our lives turn out to be when we should be blaming ourselves.

We shouldn't involve the society when it comes to our health and being to begin with. They don't really make a difference in your life. The world is too big for us to stay single and lonley. The world doesn't even owe us anything.

We need to stop saying we are lonley as if we need someone to jumpstart us so we can be happy. Happyness comes from within and until you can make yourself happy then no one can do that for you. Wakeup before it is too late.

Who in their right mind can love an unhappy person? Not everyone is meant to be Olivia Pope. Fix yourself first before you start to irritate us. When you are unhappy no one will stay. Have an inviting aura. Stop wanting people to feel sorry for you. It gets old. We get tired.

You fix yourself and when someone comes you ruin things for the two of you, what's really your end game? Do you want to commit or not? Do you think you don't deserve to be loved? They don't fit the description of your idea of " the perfect man/ women" you had in your mind?

Don't settle for someone who make you miserable all the time. We can't be settling for more cons than pros. The time is now to take charge of our lives. Your stupid believes about staying with someone because they once loved you need to stop now. No one is perfect but don't settle for less.

People change because they want to not because they are forced. Be careful with the desicions you make for yourself. Make sure you will survive them until. Be confident in your own skin.

No one can wants to be 60yrs and alone. For now your crazyness is keeping you company. The day it gets tired you be will crying again. Open up to new possibilities. The freedom is there, you enjoy your own company but until when? It is time we stop lying to ourselves.

We all want to sleep next to someone at certain point in our lives. The sooner we act like it the better. We must know what we want but also be realistic. Not every is a Prince/princess and it is not easy.