Character assassination

why cant we be happy for other kids?

Character assassination definition: an intentional attempt to spoil the reputation of a person by criticizing them severely, especially unfairly.

“No one cared when you were doing nothing. If they now criticize, ridicule, & character assassinate you means you’re doing something great...” 
― Assegid Habtewold, 

There are people around us who are doing more harm than good. This is something we tend to ignore as people all in the name of belonging to someone or something. You might be busy trying your best but they always have something bad to say. They might not always have say it in your face but you will find they are the cause.

You are busy trying build a good reputation for yourself but it is just not working. Not everyone is happy when you progress in live. You should worry if they try to influence how other people see you.  We can’t say why people behave in that way. We all come from different backgrounds but that does not mean we should let other people get in our way of progression. Having a positive mind set won’t let anything get in your way.

Some people have given up on life and believe because they did not achieve certain things no one else will. Prove them wrong and stay in your lane. We need to stop letting people get away with killing us. We might not be physically dead but they ae killing us spiritually. 

By letting them get to us we take longer time to reach our goals. Their opinions should not get to you. They are bitter about their own things and want an audience. They can plan to destroy you instead of building you. Be able to do things on your own. You are a threat to some people. Sometimes by simply being you is enough threat to them.  You should control how you feel not others. You will see where you are going in life.

Everyone has different characters and we should respect that. What we as individuals do is also remember that we should not be comfortable in disrespecting others. You are not an island. You can’t leave on your own forever. Even when someone confides in you, it does not mean you can use whatever information they can you against them. 

Stop destroying people’s characters. It might be fun at first but what will happen when it gets out of hand? Don’t be happy when people cry over what you did to them. There is power in the words you say.  Be careful with what you say.