Isn't spoiling a 2 way thing?

Who said only the males do that.

If you don't spoil him, another girl will.

If you love your partner then why can't you also spoil them? Stop making it hard for guys to ask you out. You expect everything to be done by them most of the time. Everything deserves to be spoiled every now and then.

We should treat people how we want to be treated. In that way they can be expected what we are already giving.

The more you demand but you don't give it is the more you frustrate yourself. Not everyone understands your mixed signals. Respect other people's pockets. By doing so you learn where your limits are.

You can't have your bread buttered on both sides while you didn't lift a finger. Show appreciation every now and then as a woman. While you are busy demanding things from your man, another woman is waiting patiently for you to mess up so they can pick up the pieces.

What do you do for the poor soul on his birthday? Does he still have to take care of the bill? Pay every now and then also. Don't become a burden. Be understanding and realistic, we don't always have money that we can spend whenever we feel like it. Your stupid demands will leave you alone and lonley.

Don't cry when the other kids are happy in their relationships. There are sacrifices that you make at some point and should remember they come once in a while.

Stop being an expense in your partner's life. They should be happy to have you and not sad. Lift each other up. He might be having a bad day, why not take him out. Sometimes stay in and do what he loves. We know most guys do some of the activities just to keep their partners happy.

Love is such a beautiful thing. Make it worth your while. We all make stupid things every now and then but it does not mean it should be an everything thing.

When spoiling it does not mean you should be at fancy places all the time. Buy them the food they like or finally go watch that match he always he wants to go to with you but found boring. Make it about them every now and then. They also need to feel special.

Love your partner and spoil them every now and then. Keep the spark alive. Even other grandparents still keep the spark alive. We are too young to live complicated life. Let's uncomplicate it.