Stop masking lust with love
Lust
A feeling of strong desire, especially such a feeling driven by sexual arousal.
Love
A profound and caring affection towards someone.
What lust only does is take your time. You waste a lot of it fantasizing. Most people think they are in love only to find out it is just lust.
If you certainly have a strong sexual desire for someone and can't see yourself doing anything with them expect for sex don't doubt it for sure it is lust. Stop mistaking that with love. You sometimes think you love something because you simply attracted by their physcial attributes. Lust is not solving anything at all. It is just making everything worse. You should have an idea by now. You should know what is right and wrong.
We think that we should grab everything that comes our way. We forget the dangers that it might bring along. We should be focused on things far better and productive. Things that are good to us not the things that entertain us for 2 seconds.
Easy come,easy go. If you wanted something and got it easy, it is most likely to go away easily. Don't always be happy you got it easy. Work hard for what you want. Be restless if you have to. Best things in life are not easy to find otherwise we would have never have to do much.
Lust may sound fun at first but what good is it bringing to you. Your mental health is important. You can't just do anything forgetting the damage it will bring to you mentally. Do you know the damage lust leaves after it is done with you? It is not something you can always get over overnight. There is confusion and feelings of disbelief involved.
We are far more powerful to let such emotions reside in us prematurely. We tend to be greedy from such temporary emotions. Do not make an emotions that was supposed to be temporary permanent in your heart. Suc can wear you down. It can destroy you and how the outside world views you. It is not something to be proud about.
Learn to respect yourself. There is love. You will know when love has arrived. It will not feel forced. It will feel natural as long as you haven't let lust become a permanent resident in you. There is more to life. We all go through things but it does not mean we should let them wear us down.
Always be strong and stand up for yourself. Don't let anyone make you choose what you don't find good for yourself. You are the one that matters at the end of the day. Choose you first.
Heavy truths! ❤️
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