The art of minding your own business

If it does not involve you don't feel entitled

Some people don't know where to draw the line. You can only help if asked, advise if asked to advice. Your services will be rendered if they are needed.

Everything makes sense when you do you. You stress about things that don't involve you in most cases. You busy causing yourself unnecessary illnesses because you want to control everything around you. You will die over things that don't involve you at all.

Stay in your lane. You busy neglecting yourself and putting your nose where it is not wanted or needed. You become more of a bore to people. If become a nag that no one doesn't want to be around. We should learn to have boundaries.

Haven't you realised when you focus your energy on yourself you start to see more results. Do what makes you benefit. Do what is good for you. Everything simply starts to fall into place and the reason is simply because you investing all the energy you have in what you want at the given time.

Sometimes people will ask you for your help when they feel they need it. It's then you get involved. You might think being on their case all the time helps only to find you were irritating them or making me too lazy to do things on their own. It is time they learn to fix things on their own.

Friendly advise and cheering every now and then will be needed. Stay put when that comes. Don't be judgemental when you give advise or help. Harsh critic is not needed. We should learn to be supportive unless it is needed to be judgemental.

No one wants to be around someone they feel that they are waiting for an opportunity to judge them. We make decisions about certain things thinking they will work out but don't always do. Lend your ear not your judgemental ways. We should know how to react at situations.

It is nice when you judging someone but hurts when you are being the one that's being judged. Stay put. You will have a long and healthy life. Be careful of even things you say to the other. They might come back to bite you and it won't be fun at all. Respect people in order for them to be respect in return. No one wants to be alone all the time. Better your communication skills

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