Stop forcing yourself to spaces

We are growing and there is more to life than forcing yourself to belong somewhere. Nobody said growing up is easy. We need to have our own leg to stand on. No more crying.

1. Growing up we always wanted to have as many friends as we can. This made us needy in a way. We could somehow not survive without these friends. Remember when your mother told you to stop playing with certain people, you felt she was unfair to do such to you. She could see that they are not good for you and good for you. She had been through similar situations and just didn't want you to go through the same thing. You become dependent on things that are bad for you. It is not working at all.
2. Now we are old and have little or alot of wisdom in us. We know what is right and what is wrong for us. No one should have the opportunity to mess everything for you. There are bullies out there. Just because you believe that they should be around you does not mean they should dictate your life. The minute they start making you question alot of things just leave, you already doubting alot of things in life, they shouldn't add to it.
3. Making poor life decisions should be in the past now. We have seen the different people in our lives and see which ones are good. Do not stay around people that make you doubt your sanity. Stand your ground.
4. There are jokes and there are insults, know the difference. Do not stay for the sake of belonging. Forced spaces should be things of the past

You should leave when it is not working for you. You are not young. You are not going to die honestly. We live in the times that we should know what we want and work towards it. I'm sure we were all tought to be independent at some point in our lives. You know what is good and what is bad.

Stop putting yourself in uncomfortable spaces all in the name of belonging. We are old to be even thinking like that. We have survived so many things for us to suffer emotionally at our later stages of life.

If people do not want to respect how you are then you leave. There are people who love you just the way you are. There are people who won't go out of their way just to make you feel uncomfortable.