Stop using people, it gets old
Call for help when you truly need it.
Learn to respect people. Know what to say and what not to say. Do not use their weakness to your advantage. Some things are not worth it. Don't use people all the time. How do you even sleep at night?
We all know someone who has a soft spot for us, it does not mean you should take advantage of them. That is not how you are supposed to live. Be reasonable and act like a grown up you are.
We have limits. Know what is wrong and what is right. Sometimes people are helping you out because you need the help. Stop making bullshit a habit. Luck runs out at some point.
The things you do will start to haunt you sooner that later. It's nice to get everything to go your way but are you aware at what cost? What if you truly need their help but they are tired. We all have problems and lives to live. We can't always focus on you. It does not work that way at all.
It is fun at first, the people seem to do everything you want. The day they realise that you have been using them all along won't be nice at all. Some might even resent you.
Your bad habits won't work forever. Respect is something that we should all have. When you really need help, ask for it. Don't make it an everyday habit. It won't be fair if they do the same to you.
Don't act like you are desperate for everyone to help you out. We all know when we really need help. There shouldn't be the problem everytime. Are you that helpless? Can't you think for yourself? Be careful with what you say and how you say it to people.
Not everyone will take it lightly if you use them. We don't all react the same way. You will suffer because of your greediness. You might lose what you even valued at some point. Stupid habits should stop already. You are better than that. Help if you want to and feel it is necessary. Don't use people because they are vulnerable.
We tend to be in denial with some things that we do to others. We know it is wrong and should stop with it already. There are important people in your life that are a good impact. Don't lose them due to greediness. Respect each other.
Well said M8!!
ReplyDeleteWell said M8!
ReplyDeleteSo true
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