Who knows what is good sex?

Why do we keep blinding ourselves with that concept.

I've been around a lot of people who feel they are getting good sex while some feel otherwise. Isn't sex supposed to satisfy both partners and not about how many rounds/positions you can do. You get people who will tell you about how the sex was bad and didn't even stay afterwards. Does it ever cross their minds that they are the ones who are bad at it? Did you tell the person who you want it? Stop thinking you are good in that department and calm down. Sometimes you find you are doing it wrong.

Both partners are supposed to enjoy it and it's only then you can say the sex was good. Don't come with some nonsense that they did not want to do something and busy labeling them as bad lovers, fix yourself and your expectations. We can't all be good or bad to the people we have sex with. Find the right ones to get your freak on with.

We have different tastes for goodness sake. There is no way in hell that we can have same taste in everything, we would be living a boring life then. I recently met someone who said that he hasn't had sex in years simply because he hasn't met someone with the same spiritual energy. I found his reasoning very intriguing. Not everyone can pull that off.

We all have our preferences. Some want it casually while some like him want it with somebody special. Sex is supposed to relief you not make you feel more miserable than you are. Stressing too much is what's making it bad for you.

Problem is people are trying to live up to this concept instead of simply enjoying the moment. They are not enjoying sex at all. Just do what you want to do with someone with common ground. By forcing someone to do things with you that make them uncomfortable won't lead to the sex that you both love. That's when you will be busy walking around saying you had bad sex with anonymous.

Be freaky with someone that won't run away. Enjoy the sex. Do it with the right people. Don't just have it for the sake of having it. We are all learning and adapting to change. Don't measure it according to what the society things it should be.

Don't have sex that impresses the society but yourself. Experiment if you want to, what we think doesn't matter. We won't be there after you feel bad for whatever you did. You might get a call to come back for more or not. Fact is we all have a different idea of what good sex is. You might be boring or dangerous for others but who cares. Enjoy sex