Why commit early?

Live your life before settling down.

Infidelity is not something to be proud about. It is one of the things you could have avoided before ever committing to anything. Don't make it a habit.

We all have wondering eyes and should control them. You can look but not always touch or feel. Some things are good to look at only. We don't always afford them. Interaction is not always the answer. Control your lust for things. It might cost you more than you think.

Infidelity can destroy those around you and the relationship with them. The stupid decisions you take in the heat of the moment can say alot about you. It can show you don't respect yourself and yet again your spouse. The things you might find fun might cost you more than you wanted.

Lately I've met young adults that are already married or living with their partners and I wonder if they will really last. Some might say I'm jelouse but I'm just concerned. I'm at an age where some people have been married and on their second babies but then I'm just concerned about other commitments. I'm a free spirit. We all want different things in life by a certain time. Settling after actually achieving those things can make sense but that is just my opinion.

Do you even know that person to the fullest for you to say you ready to settle with them? Have you lived your life enough to settle down? These are questions that you should be able to answer without thinking much.

Live your life to the fullest so than when you settle down there is not problem. Have fun but good fun, don't just be careless. You can't be married/committed then be busy on the side. We are slowly making this a norm.

It is slowly starting to looks ok to have somebody to entertain you on the side while you have somebody to sleep next to every night. We should stop normalizing such. The lies you will say won't make the infidelity any sexier. You cheated. You broke a promise you made to your loved one. The more you do it the more addictive it becomes.

Some things could have been avoided had you had your rumspringa in peace. Make those stupid decisions and rational mistakes in peace before settling down. You will only look back to them laughing.

Don't settle early only to regret later in life. Don't resent your partner. Live enough before settling down. Don't end up having a love/hate thing with your supposed loved one.