Seasonal or lifetime friends/partners
Are you in someone's life for now or you planning to stay longer? As a person you should know that. Stop disturbing people's progress and healing.
State your intentions with someone in the beginning. Stop with the missed signals. You confusing them. By saying what you want or need from them makes it a bit easier. They need to know where they stand in your life. They should know what you expect from them and what they should expect from you.
Don't ever think you mean for being brutally honest about your intentions. You are like everyone else and value their feelings.
Nothing hurts like being busy putting someone in your longterm plans only to find out they won't even make it to the weekend with you.
There are seasonal people in our lives. We would love for some of them to stay longer but they just don't. They are only in your life to help you cross a certain bridge or to misguide you. Don't feel bad. It can happen to anyone. All you need to do is heal and guard yourself. We might think you are rude as a person but deep down you know you are just protecting yourself.
Then comes the lifetime partners/friends. There is different milestones you have achieved. There are always there with you no matter what. We often don't appreciate them. They always motivate you to do better than you are, pick us up when we feel hopeless. We should be grateful they are around. We often don't like the advises and the truth we get from them.
We enjoy having thr seasonal friends because some how they just make us feel alive and carefree. The minute it gets rough they disappear. You start to feel down. They are never there to pick you up. They only want you in the good times.
People like that don't deserve you. What they do is just play with you. Your feelings and goals don't matter to them. You might be seen as a boring factor as soon as you start to mention such. They are just all abour fun. We all have those people in our lives and just dont wana lose them cause we think they will change.
If they were meant to stay longer you wouldn't be sitting there hoping they change. A person should voluntarily change their behavior not you force them to do. Then it would mean you have to dictate their lives. You shoulf not control anyone in anyway.
Stop living a life of impression. Don't be afraid to lose people. It's part of growing up. It shows progress. It might not seem like it at first but know so. We should not be afraid to start over. We can't control people for our own benefit. It will get easier eventually.
Love yourself always. You are not wrong for being true to yourself. You are not for everyone. The right ones will stay and love you the way you are.
State your intentions with someone in the beginning. Stop with the missed signals. You confusing them. By saying what you want or need from them makes it a bit easier. They need to know where they stand in your life. They should know what you expect from them and what they should expect from you.
Don't ever think you mean for being brutally honest about your intentions. You are like everyone else and value their feelings.
Nothing hurts like being busy putting someone in your longterm plans only to find out they won't even make it to the weekend with you.
There are seasonal people in our lives. We would love for some of them to stay longer but they just don't. They are only in your life to help you cross a certain bridge or to misguide you. Don't feel bad. It can happen to anyone. All you need to do is heal and guard yourself. We might think you are rude as a person but deep down you know you are just protecting yourself.
Then comes the lifetime partners/friends. There is different milestones you have achieved. There are always there with you no matter what. We often don't appreciate them. They always motivate you to do better than you are, pick us up when we feel hopeless. We should be grateful they are around. We often don't like the advises and the truth we get from them.
We enjoy having thr seasonal friends because some how they just make us feel alive and carefree. The minute it gets rough they disappear. You start to feel down. They are never there to pick you up. They only want you in the good times.
People like that don't deserve you. What they do is just play with you. Your feelings and goals don't matter to them. You might be seen as a boring factor as soon as you start to mention such. They are just all abour fun. We all have those people in our lives and just dont wana lose them cause we think they will change.
If they were meant to stay longer you wouldn't be sitting there hoping they change. A person should voluntarily change their behavior not you force them to do. Then it would mean you have to dictate their lives. You shoulf not control anyone in anyway.
Stop living a life of impression. Don't be afraid to lose people. It's part of growing up. It shows progress. It might not seem like it at first but know so. We should not be afraid to start over. We can't control people for our own benefit. It will get easier eventually.
Love yourself always. You are not wrong for being true to yourself. You are not for everyone. The right ones will stay and love you the way you are.
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