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Stop giving the wrong people your time and energy. No everyone deserves you. Not everyone values you.
I recently learned this the hard way. People come in and out of your life because you let them. I let someone do that for years and they never saw anything wrong with it. You will feel the pain when they do disappear. Nothing good ever comes from it.
Have you ever had a confused friendship/situationship/relationship?
That shit can feel like a one sided ship of some sort. But at first you won't feel that way. You won't even notice until someone else confronts you. Alot of things can happen. Most of us want to see people happy and full of life. That's actually a good thing until you become stupid and start behaving like a clown. Don't ever be a clown for anyone unless you are a paid professional.
It will be only later at night when you can't sleep that you realize you are just a cushion for someone or sitting alone and deep in your thoughts. A cushion is pillow that we use to sit comfortably.
You might have someone whom you love but is just not feeling you entirely. They only talk to you when they need you to pick them up. They can be at their lowest or need something and you just ready to help out.We can be clowns at times but I take it as part of growing up.
Have you noticed how you drop everything for that specific person? Delay your plans just to make sure that they are comfortable? Make them feel loved and encourage them to do better? What is the person doing in return? Most of the time they don't even acknowledge you. They are just using you until they get better. That's a toxic situation to be in.
This is the worst thing ever to happen to anyone. They can't see you past being the substitute for them. You will even find no one knows about you and how you help them. It's in our nature to help each other but some people don't deserve it.
Put yourself first. Tell them how you feel. They are most likely going to make it look like you are crazy. They will start throwing tandrums like little divas they are simply because you called them out. You lose a part of yourself everytime you let them back in.
You won't die from letting go. Don't be afraid. As you grow you need to cut some people off. They are just not good for you. The good in you deserves better. People just like taking advantage of others. The right ones will appreciate you.
I recently learned this the hard way. People come in and out of your life because you let them. I let someone do that for years and they never saw anything wrong with it. You will feel the pain when they do disappear. Nothing good ever comes from it.
Have you ever had a confused friendship/situationship/relationship?
That shit can feel like a one sided ship of some sort. But at first you won't feel that way. You won't even notice until someone else confronts you. Alot of things can happen. Most of us want to see people happy and full of life. That's actually a good thing until you become stupid and start behaving like a clown. Don't ever be a clown for anyone unless you are a paid professional.
It will be only later at night when you can't sleep that you realize you are just a cushion for someone or sitting alone and deep in your thoughts. A cushion is pillow that we use to sit comfortably.
You might have someone whom you love but is just not feeling you entirely. They only talk to you when they need you to pick them up. They can be at their lowest or need something and you just ready to help out.We can be clowns at times but I take it as part of growing up.
Have you noticed how you drop everything for that specific person? Delay your plans just to make sure that they are comfortable? Make them feel loved and encourage them to do better? What is the person doing in return? Most of the time they don't even acknowledge you. They are just using you until they get better. That's a toxic situation to be in.
This is the worst thing ever to happen to anyone. They can't see you past being the substitute for them. You will even find no one knows about you and how you help them. It's in our nature to help each other but some people don't deserve it.
Put yourself first. Tell them how you feel. They are most likely going to make it look like you are crazy. They will start throwing tandrums like little divas they are simply because you called them out. You lose a part of yourself everytime you let them back in.
You won't die from letting go. Don't be afraid. As you grow you need to cut some people off. They are just not good for you. The good in you deserves better. People just like taking advantage of others. The right ones will appreciate you.
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