What if you want to stay?
Doesn't that sound a bit crazy to you? It might sound crazy to someone else.
You ever been in a relationship or situation that you didn't want to leave. The signs were just there but it didnt feel right. You wanted to see the good in it no matter what? You sometimes feel you might have given up too easily.
Truth is we have all have been in similar situation. You can sometimes feel like you let it go to easily. In all honesty, you have tried. It was just not the right time. You had to leave. Had it been the right time we would be talking about something different.
Can you go back now? Maybe you can. The situation might be better. The real question is, "will they want you back?"
There are things that happen and we are forced to deal with them. You can't runaway forever. It will catchup with you. Make grown up decision. We learn from our mistakes. It should be a stepping stone for you.
Speak up. The quality of life is essential. Weigh your options. If you ever decide to stay you can. Check the calculated risks. There is a bigger picture. Don't forget it.
Your decision might seem dumb for us but it should make sense to you. In life you will learn that it is all about you before anyone else. We won't always have your best interests at heart. It is painful but true.
Outside opinions won't always work for you. We want to make it work to our advantage and not yours. Sometimes we are only good for listening. Sharing options should not be considered.
Be bothered if things are not going your way. Go back if it makes sense to you. You are now wiser and smarter. You won't fall for the same trap twice.
Truth is most of us regret a decision we took a while ago and scared to change it. It feels like it is too late to try anything. You should. Talk about it. Try again. If it works then good for you and if it doesn't work then atleast you have tried.
Do not live your life in regret and wondering what if. Take that chance again and see how it goes. It can be good to you. Challenge yourself.
We can't always stay in comfortable spaces. We have to make moves. Show that you are alive. You can't stay afraid forever. If you feel that you don't want to go back then it is still. Just don't make it a habit to leave everything in a bad state.
Be honest with yourself and the decisions you take. Make it work.
You ever been in a relationship or situation that you didn't want to leave. The signs were just there but it didnt feel right. You wanted to see the good in it no matter what? You sometimes feel you might have given up too easily.
Truth is we have all have been in similar situation. You can sometimes feel like you let it go to easily. In all honesty, you have tried. It was just not the right time. You had to leave. Had it been the right time we would be talking about something different.
Can you go back now? Maybe you can. The situation might be better. The real question is, "will they want you back?"
There are things that happen and we are forced to deal with them. You can't runaway forever. It will catchup with you. Make grown up decision. We learn from our mistakes. It should be a stepping stone for you.
Speak up. The quality of life is essential. Weigh your options. If you ever decide to stay you can. Check the calculated risks. There is a bigger picture. Don't forget it.
Your decision might seem dumb for us but it should make sense to you. In life you will learn that it is all about you before anyone else. We won't always have your best interests at heart. It is painful but true.
Outside opinions won't always work for you. We want to make it work to our advantage and not yours. Sometimes we are only good for listening. Sharing options should not be considered.
Be bothered if things are not going your way. Go back if it makes sense to you. You are now wiser and smarter. You won't fall for the same trap twice.
Truth is most of us regret a decision we took a while ago and scared to change it. It feels like it is too late to try anything. You should. Talk about it. Try again. If it works then good for you and if it doesn't work then atleast you have tried.
Do not live your life in regret and wondering what if. Take that chance again and see how it goes. It can be good to you. Challenge yourself.
We can't always stay in comfortable spaces. We have to make moves. Show that you are alive. You can't stay afraid forever. If you feel that you don't want to go back then it is still. Just don't make it a habit to leave everything in a bad state.
Be honest with yourself and the decisions you take. Make it work.
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