state your intentions
The truth shall set you free.
Ever had someone waltz into your life out of the blue? You just end up disoriented? Those type of people need to go.
If they aren't bringing in anything positive to you they might aswell leave. It is time we are honest with each other. We are too grown to be guessing what people are in our lives.
Say whether you are around for now or staying longer. State your intentions please. Don't ever come to waste someone's time. You ever know the kind of effort and energy that one has to have to accommodate someone. For some people it can mean alot.
We need to stop being undecided. Tell the person what you want to do. Give them the opportunity to decide what they want. You just come to them only to leave when they believe they need you the most and it not a good image.
Try to think from their perspective, a lot of things will makes sense. It shouldn't be more about you benefiting from them and they are just not getting anything from you. We are more than just a temporary solution.
We are people and deserve more than just the confusing "situations" to deal with. Have respect for the people you deal it. For some, it wasn't even easy for them to let you in. Imagine what the uncertainty is doing to them.
State your intentions. Let them have a say in their lifes. We have people's pleasers. They will forever remain scared to confront you. For you to come into their lifes may feel like a blessing for them. You become some form of temporary solution. You become some sort of coping mechanism for them.
We shouldn't be leaving people with question marks of what we could be possibly doing in their lives. State your intentions. You are not a bad person for being truthful.
You are a bad person when you don't say anything at all. Remember how the other person may feel. There is more to life than continuous confusing moments.
Respect the time and effort that people have for you. Have the decency to be honest with them. We live a life of uncertainty. You could be the last person they think about at night. You might be a positive influence on their lives. Remember the type of effect you might be bringing to them. Let us live our truth.
When you tell them what you want or would like to get from them, you are just simply giving them an opportunity to decide if they want you around or not. It can be such a problem having undecided person in one's life.
Respect the decision they decide to take after you state your intentions
Ever had someone waltz into your life out of the blue? You just end up disoriented? Those type of people need to go.
If they aren't bringing in anything positive to you they might aswell leave. It is time we are honest with each other. We are too grown to be guessing what people are in our lives.
Say whether you are around for now or staying longer. State your intentions please. Don't ever come to waste someone's time. You ever know the kind of effort and energy that one has to have to accommodate someone. For some people it can mean alot.
We need to stop being undecided. Tell the person what you want to do. Give them the opportunity to decide what they want. You just come to them only to leave when they believe they need you the most and it not a good image.
Try to think from their perspective, a lot of things will makes sense. It shouldn't be more about you benefiting from them and they are just not getting anything from you. We are more than just a temporary solution.
We are people and deserve more than just the confusing "situations" to deal with. Have respect for the people you deal it. For some, it wasn't even easy for them to let you in. Imagine what the uncertainty is doing to them.
State your intentions. Let them have a say in their lifes. We have people's pleasers. They will forever remain scared to confront you. For you to come into their lifes may feel like a blessing for them. You become some form of temporary solution. You become some sort of coping mechanism for them.
We shouldn't be leaving people with question marks of what we could be possibly doing in their lives. State your intentions. You are not a bad person for being truthful.
You are a bad person when you don't say anything at all. Remember how the other person may feel. There is more to life than continuous confusing moments.
Respect the time and effort that people have for you. Have the decency to be honest with them. We live a life of uncertainty. You could be the last person they think about at night. You might be a positive influence on their lives. Remember the type of effect you might be bringing to them. Let us live our truth.
When you tell them what you want or would like to get from them, you are just simply giving them an opportunity to decide if they want you around or not. It can be such a problem having undecided person in one's life.
Respect the decision they decide to take after you state your intentions
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