Commitment
Never settle for less. We all deserve better.
We may think we don't deserve certain things in life but that is not true. We all have someone made for us.
No matter what life throws at you don't ever make that mistake. Do not make yourself available for every person under the sun. They don't always deserve you.
No one will ever stop taking advantage of you if you let them. You must teach them how to treat you. They will know the limits when it comes to you. They will know what you want and have the respect. How you carry yourself plays a big role.
Not everyone is the one for you. Don't try to commit to all the ones that come your way. It is not worth it at the end of the day. Let's be realistic, not everyone has your best interests at heart. The sooner will realize the better. Just because the people around you are committing does not mean you are forced. You will commit when the time is right and to the right partner.
We need to know ourselves aswell as what we want from a partner. If you are not sure you will keep throwing yourself to the wolves. They will never appreciate you and you will start to do the same.
If you are still wondering around then do not try to commit. We can't be around uncertain people. All they do is confuse you. Some people are not ready for commitment at all. Don't make a mistake of forcing them. You will leave to regret it. All they know how to do best is waste your time. They will just be inconsistent with you. Commitment is a two way thing. It should be mutual. It can't work with one way. Don't lie to yourself. You can't maintain a whole relationship on your own.
Do not be happy that you have someone but they are not what you wanted. Most people are in love with the idea of being in a relationship and don't care how the person treats them. It is scary. By the time you decide to move on it might be a bit late.
There is beauty in finding yourself. You appreciate yourself more and love what you are becoming. When you commit you must know what you want and need.
Commit when you are ready to the right partner. We all have one. The right partner will not make you feel unwanted at all. We are so used to the idea that we should be working hard to impress our partners but that shouldn't be the case. You will end up as a pleaser and not a partner.
We may think we don't deserve certain things in life but that is not true. We all have someone made for us.
No matter what life throws at you don't ever make that mistake. Do not make yourself available for every person under the sun. They don't always deserve you.
No one will ever stop taking advantage of you if you let them. You must teach them how to treat you. They will know the limits when it comes to you. They will know what you want and have the respect. How you carry yourself plays a big role.
Not everyone is the one for you. Don't try to commit to all the ones that come your way. It is not worth it at the end of the day. Let's be realistic, not everyone has your best interests at heart. The sooner will realize the better. Just because the people around you are committing does not mean you are forced. You will commit when the time is right and to the right partner.
We need to know ourselves aswell as what we want from a partner. If you are not sure you will keep throwing yourself to the wolves. They will never appreciate you and you will start to do the same.
If you are still wondering around then do not try to commit. We can't be around uncertain people. All they do is confuse you. Some people are not ready for commitment at all. Don't make a mistake of forcing them. You will leave to regret it. All they know how to do best is waste your time. They will just be inconsistent with you. Commitment is a two way thing. It should be mutual. It can't work with one way. Don't lie to yourself. You can't maintain a whole relationship on your own.
Do not be happy that you have someone but they are not what you wanted. Most people are in love with the idea of being in a relationship and don't care how the person treats them. It is scary. By the time you decide to move on it might be a bit late.
There is beauty in finding yourself. You appreciate yourself more and love what you are becoming. When you commit you must know what you want and need.
Commit when you are ready to the right partner. We all have one. The right partner will not make you feel unwanted at all. We are so used to the idea that we should be working hard to impress our partners but that shouldn't be the case. You will end up as a pleaser and not a partner.
Nice read
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