Date who you need not want

Greed and lust will be the death of us

We might not always see but some people won't work. No matter how hard you try to make sense of it there isn't any. We have let lust and greed overtake us in our years of dating. At the end of the day it is a mess.

Ever wonder what are you doing so wrong in a relationship that is standing in your way of getting a good partner? We mostly focus on what we want.

Focus on what you will need in the long run. Check the quantities that will work undeniably for you. The sooner we come to terms with this the better. There is more to life than the beatiful pictures and the beautiful captions on social media.

Does that person feed your soul? Can you really rely on that person? Will they stick no matter what? If most of the answers are no then you know what to do. Don't take people for granted.

By being inconsistent or uninterested to a partner can destroy them. You leave a scar that stays there forever. They will believe they are doing something wrong for the longest time because of how they are being treated in a relationship.

It is not a bad thing to leave when what you want is not met. We should learn to have the confidence to speak up and such things. We cannot shy away forever. Address the problem. If your partner can't seem to understand then guess what, it is ok to leave.

The right partner wouldn't put you in a position of uncertainty. No partner wants to stress their loved ones. Make things work if it is possible. We need to stop falling in love with the idea of being in a relationship that we end up losing yourselves in the process.

You might be in a relationship but are you with the right partner? Your partner is supposed to make you feel whole not leave a hole in your heart. You have to complete each other in ways that are positive to your lives.

Don't fool us with false aesthetics on your social media. We can see if it is not working. Leave and start over. The right partner is out there for you. Do not  give into an inconsistent partner thinking your partner is nonexistent.

We all have someone made for us. Have the heart to leave when it is not working. You are not a failure. You know what you want and need. Don't settle for anything less than that. Speak up about it.