Real feelings don't go away
Do they?
If you say yes they were never real. It's just my opinion. Don't play us.
We go through things as people. Most of the time we don't want to address the problem. We choose to walk away instead. Things can get messy at times but that doesn't mean we should just step back.
So things are not going well and now you starting to doubt the relationship. You start wondering what went wrong but at other times you know what exactly happened. We need to stop lying to ourselves.
Address what is bothering and see if you can fix the problem. We can always choose to run away. Those type of moments can haunt you for life. There will be a constant reminder of why you could have fixed it.
There is a 50/50 change that it might work or not. Don't choose to shy away from everything. We need to learn to express ourselves more so that it becomes easier to work through things.
Resolve issues that you have with the person. You might have a peace of mind or closure from talking about them. It might still not work out but atleast you would have addressed it.
We shouldn't bottle things inside and somehow expect the other person to know what you are going through. Respect people and be realistic. They have their own struggles they are going through and wouldn't be aware some of the time what you want to say.
Please understand that not everyone is quick to pick up on what you are about to say to them. Some may receive the message well and some may not. We need open our mind to the possibilities.
It would be selfish to think that someone really knows how you are feeling about them and not addressing it. We don't always catch the signal. It is bad. We can't live like this.
Fix what is possible to fix. Don't force yourself into a space that you don't belong. Addressing the issue doesn't mean it will end in your favour. Sometimes the feelings are jusf mutual. You talking about them just make it easier for you.
Be your own happiness. Focus on what builds you not breaks. If it can work again that's good and also if it doesn't work good then it is not the end of the world. Learn to be inlove with yourself before you go for someone else.
You might move on knowing you have tried.
If you say yes they were never real. It's just my opinion. Don't play us.
We go through things as people. Most of the time we don't want to address the problem. We choose to walk away instead. Things can get messy at times but that doesn't mean we should just step back.
So things are not going well and now you starting to doubt the relationship. You start wondering what went wrong but at other times you know what exactly happened. We need to stop lying to ourselves.
Address what is bothering and see if you can fix the problem. We can always choose to run away. Those type of moments can haunt you for life. There will be a constant reminder of why you could have fixed it.
There is a 50/50 change that it might work or not. Don't choose to shy away from everything. We need to learn to express ourselves more so that it becomes easier to work through things.
Resolve issues that you have with the person. You might have a peace of mind or closure from talking about them. It might still not work out but atleast you would have addressed it.
We shouldn't bottle things inside and somehow expect the other person to know what you are going through. Respect people and be realistic. They have their own struggles they are going through and wouldn't be aware some of the time what you want to say.
Please understand that not everyone is quick to pick up on what you are about to say to them. Some may receive the message well and some may not. We need open our mind to the possibilities.
It would be selfish to think that someone really knows how you are feeling about them and not addressing it. We don't always catch the signal. It is bad. We can't live like this.
Fix what is possible to fix. Don't force yourself into a space that you don't belong. Addressing the issue doesn't mean it will end in your favour. Sometimes the feelings are jusf mutual. You talking about them just make it easier for you.
Be your own happiness. Focus on what builds you not breaks. If it can work again that's good and also if it doesn't work good then it is not the end of the world. Learn to be inlove with yourself before you go for someone else.
You might move on knowing you have tried.
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