Don't be hard

 You ever sit alone and wonder why things are not progressing well for you? For some reason others are getting their life together and you not sure if it will get better for you. 

What is meant for you will come in the right time. 

Appreciate how everything happens in your life. Someone out there is praying for your life. They just look up to you. You give them some sort of hope that it will be alright. It was never meant to be easy. We are constantly worried when we don't archive anything we want. 

Who came up with timelines anyway? We like to put unnecessary pressure on ourselves as people. You honestly thought everything will be smooth ride for you? Stop lying to yourself. 

Some things are not worth our worries. Just learn to push yourself everyday. There is just something about that. Slow progress is better than no progress. 

If you ever decide to give up, what about your future? Are you willing to live a sad life because things are not going your way? We can't dwell on our sorrows full time, wakeup. 

Grow up before it is too late. There are ups and downs in life. There is a reason why things happen the way they do. We shouldn't take it as a step back, it should be learning curve. Talk about it. Don't supress your feelings. 

Do you honestly think you would appreciate anything if you could easily get it? We should learn to love and trust the process. Don't compare your timeline to one of your fellow peers. By doing so you create unnecessary tension within your circle. You might not see it but that envy will not get you anywhere. 

Focus on fixing your life and not everyone else all the time. There are things that were never meant for us to begin with. Don't ever think because someone else got it it means you must automatically get it. Use your common sense, you don't even want the same things in life. 

Grow up. Go out there and work towards getting what you want. Good for you if you get it immediately and also good for you if you take time to get it.

 Learn to trust the process. We are not meant to go through life easy. Stop focusing your energy on what doesn't involve you. They will tell you if they want you to.