Stop comparing

 

We are not the same. We need to stop comparing each other's relationships.

We have different habits and preferences. Live up to your own truth. Just because your friend's partner is spoiling him/her with presents and your partner does not it does not mean you are not loved. 

People love differently. There's a reason why there are love languages. Know yours and stop frustrating yourself. There are people who are simply happy if the partner calls them or they just together doing nothing. 

There are people who prefer going out on dates all the time. There are people who love helping out their partner. Whichever way it is they are happy. Those people who happy. 

Understand your partner's love and make them get yours also. Be compatible. If you are not you end up being noisy and start comparing your relationship with the next person. We prefer being loved differently. 

We don't have the same characters. Some prefer to take and never give back while others don't. These type of boundaries we need to learn. It can be tempting at times but remember to 

Don't ever find yourself faking it because you want to impress someone. Live your truth. You will find the right partner that will compliment you. You have to remember different things make us happy. 

Know what makes you happy and stick to it. Don't break yourself trying to those around. You know deep down what makes you happy. 

Most importantly it is about how you view yourself. That controls how everyone else will look at you. People who are unhappy on the inside are hard to please. You need to work on yourself. 

There is far more to life than just comparing and making yourself more frustrated. If your partner makes you happy without even buying you presents then why do you suddenly feel you should get one from them? Will you feel better. 

Were you doing it for you or everyone else? You will suffer over things that are beyond you. You can't just force to even do things for you. They should them willingly. 

Focus on being a good partner to your partner and stop worrying about things that do not concern you. You will remain unhappy if you continue with that mentality. 

Keep the same positive energy for yourself. No matter what happens, don't ever fake anything.