Be careful
Are you careful with what you do?
You might be busy with something thinking nothing will happen but it eventually catches up. The type of companies we miss up with say alot about us. Do you feel safe or is it just for vibes?
These things do catchup with you. There is honestly a need for self introspection every now and then. You might not think much about it but it is true. Be careful with what you do. Nobody is perfect but don't normalize nonsense . Befriend people who will call you out when you are wrong and not just hype you for the sake of clout.
Times do change but we will not forget how you reacted to certain situations. We will not forget the bad that you did. We should just start being truthful with ourselves and then there will be progress. You need friends not fans. Fans will support whatever you say but friends will not be scared to call you out.
You might realize it when it is too late what you were doing wrong all this time. Treat yourself good. It's not a sin. You don't have to force yourself to do certain things just so you can belong. Be careful with what you do.
We are constantly battling with things that sometimes we are too scared to talk about, but with the write friends it shouldn't be much of a problem. Don't befriend the ones that are just comfortable to be beside you in the good times and that is it.
You can't keep changing friends like you are looking for a perfect clean toilet at a public space. Be truthful to yourself. Some conversations are uncomfortable but we still need to have them. You can't always be right or wrong.
Life is constantly changing and forcing us to change whether we want to or not. We have to adapt and for some people it can be hard than for the other.
Respect people who acknowledge that what they are doing is wrong and trying to be better. Give reassurance that it will be OK. Be there for one another. There are milestones we want to reach in life.
Some parts of our lives require a stable support. Remember that no man is an island. There should be support and guidance all the way. It can get uncomfortable but will be worth it at the end of the day.
Just be careful and choose the right people for your circle.
Well written. I am touched
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