Are you a placeholder?

 Do you live enough?

Ever been in a situation where you feel you are scared to live your true self. We tend to prioritize others at times. You will quickly find yourself in a dark place.

We sometimes get so lost that we forget how to live all on our own. There is truth in being who you want to be. The person will learn to adjust to you. You will meet each other halfway.

Stop living to fit your partner's ideas of what their life should be. What about yours? Share the same vision. If they don't understand then make them or leave. 

You can't constantly live in fear of overwhelming your partners with your potential. We don't live for the other person but yourself first. Don't be afraid to speak your truth. The right ones will understand. 

Be happy for one another. Encourage each other to reach your full potential. Your relationship should not be a competition. You will both lose if you behave that way. 

Do not give others full control over your life. They should be in the same line as you. Don't you ever be afraid. The question you should ask yourself daily is 'Can they handle me or are they trying to shrink me?'. 

Guide each other. Never be afraid to ask the questions. We all have a right to say something. Address what bothers you. If they are constantly doing it how you don't like it then leave them alone. 

They should see you as an equal and not a placeholder for their perfect image. You will eventually get tired of pretending. If you constantly feel like you are told what to do and what to say then leave. You can't live for someone else. You will eventually lose yourself. 

You will become a placeholder in their lives and struggle to actually live your own. Be equal with your partners and not belong. You have to be able to address what bothers you. 

We are trying to live a better life than we are already leaving. We shouldn't be afraid to tell them as it is. You should be were you are valued and understood. You can't always follow orders from others. As a person, you should be able to think on your own. Move on your own already. 

The right person will understand that not all of us want to be a placeholder. The person cannot live their vision through you without your permission. We should equally respect and appreciate each other.