Show up for you

 Life is not always easy. Most of the time some of us want to quit but end up not doing so. We just soldier on. Self sabotage has never looked good on anyone. 


There are days were it is hard to get up but we push. We have learned to soldier on. Some things are deeper than we can think. We go through things that we are sometimes afraid to share. By not sharing does not mean that you want to let it go altogether. Confront yourself. 


You can't always runaway and hope for the best. You must put in the work. Take a good look at yourself. Do you go all out for yourself? Is it always about everyone else and you forget yourself? Are you genuinely happy? Such questions should be on your mind at all times. You should feel free.


It is pleasurable to be around you or people just can't stand you? Fix that. You are not money but definitely can't live with an unbearable presence. I am not saying have an attitude. Appreciate the real ones. 


Don't be afraid to choose yourself. No one else can do that for you. Before you jump and be there for someone be there for yourself. Pick up the pieces. Don't be afraid to start over if it gets tough.


We want to be understood at all times so we must learn to accept that it won't always be the case. People are entitled to their own opinions. That should not control who you are. We all have a character flaw. Some of us are constantly working on getting better. You are not becoming better for everyone else but yourself.


Appreciate what you can and have archived. You are the only person who know how far you come. Take time to yourself when it gets too busy for you. Your health comes first. 


Show up for yourself no matter the situation. We can't promise to always stand by you. Learn to stand by yourself. Stand for yourself. You will archive more than you think.


We want to get the finer things in life and sometimes neglect ourselves. Work and take care. You should look and be happy with your life. 


Don't fake it for anything. Feel it all. Don't ever be afraid to feel. If it is your time to hit the tough times then do so. We can't always force happiness. Get a stable life. You can't be all over the place. You are not 2yrs anymore. There is no one to literally hold your hand and take you through life. 

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  1. Thsnk you i needed these words. Im swimming in a pool holding burdens on ny shoulder n trying nt to drown. Its really tough. Should i decide to dust off the butdens on my shoulder, il appear as stingy n selfish person to my fam o everyone. U knw how parents dnt think of u n ur struggles. After pay day, all they want is that cut n u cnt even afford all the tym coz uv got life to live.

    Choosing myself is what am on about. N i know sum ppl even in my family won't appreciate that.

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  2. Exactly what I needed thanks starting from today I will make myself a priority 😌

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