Understand each other

 Your relationship should make sense to you and your partner.

 We all have a different idea of how a relationship should be and how to handle it.

Do you  understand your partner? When in a relationship you are supposed to understand your partner. You can't just date someone only for you to pretend how you think they want their person to be.

Don't date just to showoff. Life is not some fantasy fiction movie. Anything is possible. Work on it. Stop pretending. Stop giving the rest of us a show. You should value that person more. 

You both come from different backgrounds and have an idea of how you think the relationship should be. The sad thing is, until you talk about these changes  you are still going to have issues. Iron things out. You have different experiences and know what worked for you.

Share the information with your partner. They shouldn't be feeling out of place while you are supposedly in a relationship. Learn to communicate. Tell them what you want and how you want it.

Learn to listen. You must understand what your partner wants and how they want it. Be ready to make sacrifices here and there. Learn to stand your ground when you feel uneasy. You can't stay scared of your person forever. You need to talk to them. You can't keep avoiding the serious issues. 

Don't live a lie that will catch-up on you. The possibilities are endless. Don't be scared. They are who you choose to be in a relationship with. They are your partner. They are most likely to see you at your lowest and worst but still choose to be there. Don't lie to them.

The right person will stay. The will make it work. It doesn't always have to be perfect. We all know how life can be. 

Life has its ups and downs. It won't always be perfect. Most of the time you might feel like giving up. Remember why you chose them. Just understand each other and work on your commutation.

Stop comparing your relationship with others. That is how you quickly destroy it. We won't be there when it is all over. We will definitely watch from a distance if you choose to give us a show. No one can ever say no to a free show. Value what you have going on for you.