Comparisons

 Whatever you decide to do,please stop this habit.

We all have different purposes in life and should stick by that. I believe we all have goals that we want to achieve and work towards them tiresly.

The trick is to never give up. Don't look sideways. Focus on the road ahead. There are too many destructions and if you allow them you will stress and struggle. The minute you decide to compare what you are doing with the next person it is over for you.

You will end up worrying about how they have managed to get so far within a specific period of time instead of focusing on yourself and enjoying the journey.

Do not compare yourself with someone's journey. You don't know what they did to get to where they are.

Comparing steals joy in one's life. You become so obsessive that you forget that person is not sharing a journey with you. Focus on you. Do what you want

Work on your goals and how you are going to attain them. Being a noisy person will keep delaying you. There is a wave of sadness that might occasionally hit you but it does not make it OK to start looking at other people.

A simple example of how people compare each other within the family. Just because person A got a job first and looks after only themselves does not mean you as Person B might have the same luxuries. We are all going through things and people might take advantage of you. Don't even let external comments affects you. 

The habit of comparing yourself with others will breed jealousy. You need to be careful and mindful of what you let into your life. We are not going to achieve things at the same time. Some may struggle at the beginning and have a smooth ending while some may have a smooth beginning and a very bad ending.

In all walks of life we won't get things at the same time. We are affected by different things at different stages of our lives. There are people that you find they are working but still have to send money home which means their goals might take a bit longer to attain while some are working and sorely providing for themselves with no responsibilities. Imagine if you are busy comparing yourself. You will be worried and angry about the battles you know nothing about. Some people wear their problems well. 

Joy and happiness comes from you. You need to learn to create that space for yourself. There are plenty things you want in life and you should focus on getting them. What you should be looking at is different ways to achieve what you want and celebrate the milestones you reach.