Learn to love your own company

 Do you always feel like you need to be around people all the time? 

Life has so many uncertainties but we push. We are constantly moving. Whether it could be fast or slow but we are moving.

We want company but at what cost? There are characters that are not supposed to be around us. Their influence has become more of a damage. They become more of a lesson than a blessing, a form of stress. 

Learn to be your own person. Learn to depend on yourself. We should stand up on our own and make things work. Being dependent on others needs to stop at some point. You can't take pride in being a budden. We are moving in the directions that don't even want any form of unflattering characters and distractions. The move is so unpleasant but worth it.

People won't always be there to support you but you will definitely move either way. There are hardships we face alone but we should still be able to survive them.

Learn the right time to say anything. We want to share the news about our lives but are we sharing with the right people? Not everyone will be happy for you. That's just how life is. 

Be firm and consistent in self development. Learn more about yourself. Take time to actually evaluate your life. Do a SWOT analysis on yourself. You clearly know what you are capable of doing. You know what you need. 

Learn to prioritize yourself. Make time for yourself. You don't always have to be around others to enjoy your life. You will actually learn and know what you want to archive.

You should not see learning to love your own company as a form of punishment. We came alone to this world and we should learn to survive alone.

Life in a group setting all the time is not practical. We face challenges that require us to face them alone. Some people might not be even enjoying your company. 

Learn to sit on that table alone and eat. You definitely won't die. People in your life should complement you and not leaving you dependent on them. You should be a safe space for yourself before you become one for someone else.

We love life and people but tend to not prioritize ourselves. Life is such a battlefield. If you don't have any proper life skills you will know that you will suffer a great deal. Make it work on your own. Set that table.