Healing

Ever been bothered and hurting but don't know how to explain it? Pain can make you or break you. 

Stop normalizing pain. Pain is not something to be proud of. It takes something from you and just destroys you bit by bit overtime. It affects your way of life.

Remove yourself from things that no longer serve you. We tend to please people at our own expense. We are living but not dealing with our emotions. We pass our frustrations to the next innocent person.

 Let yourself feel and acknowledge things that hurt you. If someone says something to you and it does not sit well with you then you must address it. You won't get paid for letting the pain eat you alive.

The people know and are aware of how they are treating you. Just because they are comfortable with being rude towards you and all their peers it does not mean you should be also. The disrespect should stop when it comes to you.

When you are healing you do not want any disturbance. 

People treat you exactly how they see you. If they bring negativity let them go. You deserve good things in your life. People will learn about your boundaries and respect them.

It is important to be a healed version of yourself. Have good memories and sharp mind. We want to belong somewhere but we end up costing ourselves. 

Take time to heal. People do different things to heal. Some go therapy while some go on spiritual retreats. What is important is that they get the job done. You must sit down and see what triggers you. Find the underlying issue and resolve them. We are getting old and can't keep making up excuses for certain issues. You are what you make of yourself and the least you could be is a healthy and healed version of yourself.

We have been bullied and looked down on for the longest time bit afraid to voice it out. Now it is the time to do it. Tell them what they are doing or saying to you doesn't sit well with you. People are damaged and want to pass it in order to feel ok.

Life has different seasons and this is yours to rest and recover. Take your time. Remember this is your time to mould yourself and to be the healed person you deserve to be. It might not sit well with others but you must remember what you want to archive. Some roads like this one deserve to be walked alone. Choose yourself always.